Alright, this is my first post, but I've actually been involved in the community for the past 4 years or so.

About 2 months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 and a half years. Before dating her, I never had this problem. After her and I went our separate ways, I started gaming chicks like crazy. I've noticed that I can still attract, kiss close, and generally have as many one night stands as I want. However, when it comes to getting any girl emotionally invested in me, it doesn't happen. I would preferably like having several different girls to call up and go do something with on occasion, like dinner, movie, random adventure, etc.

It almost feels like women are extremely attracted to me, but for some reason or another, they don't see me as relationship material. What could be the reasons for this? F-closes are fun, but honestly, I've always been interested in having a more meaningful relationship with women.

build more comfort and rapport with them, and hold off on fucking them or making the move on them. Get them attracted but leave them wanting more

I tried that with the most previous woman I gamed. She came over when I was having a party, we kissed, she stayed with me that night, but we honestly did nothing remotely sexual besides kiss.

We hung out a few more times, with me trying to build comfort before moving on. Now, roughly a month later, I'm pretty sure I'm in the friend zone, and that hasn't really happened to me before. I didn't think her attraction would go down while I was trying to build comfort.