so its like this. im a junior in high school, and i used to be so good at flirting with women. by flirting i mean playful teasing, always having something witty to say, effortlessly able to keep the conversation going. i was able to pick up a few girls the first time i met them even snagged a 20 yr old hottie wit a 21 yr old bf. i created a notepad txt document and wrote down any witty thing i thought of just in case i ever lost my skills.

over the summer i didnt really have much contact with girls from school (only hooked up with a few the whole summer) so i ended up losing my skills, even the text document doesnt help. its like i lost my edge, i went from being one of the best guys at pick up at ANY age to a sad depressed loser. on my best days i could pick up any girl anywhere, but it only lasts for a day then the attitude goes away. can someone help me figure this out? never had this happen before, and now its like on/off every other day.

its so depressing because being successful with women is all i ever wanted, and finally having that success and losing it just as fast is horrible. Ive had some OCD problems before, so maybe its something like that where im scared to lose my success. IF ANYONE HAS ANY TIPS FOR ME PLZ LET ME KNOW

P.S : one specific example i thought of. after having a few bad weeks i was with a friend and met up with a few of my girls, at one point my mind stopped and thought about "what if i lose this confidence tomorrow" then i just kept thinkin about it and after the weekend i did lose it. i couldnt stop my mind from thinking it...

If you can't fake being interesting (which is interesting in itself) then become interesting.

Take up new hobbies. As many as possible. You will notice major changes and have much more stuff to talk about.

Picking up girls is like a muscle! if you dont use it it dies!!
iv been were u have too over the summer i didnt have contact with a single girl then i came back and i just had no game.. to make it worse the girls i was trying to pick up all happen to be bitches. i think that realy killed my confidence.

your probebly having bad luck like me but just go out there and keep trying! practice itll come back i promise stay confident cuz remember a rejection is nothing!

you should check 60 years of challenge its weird stuff but it realy is motivational
and the hand carrasing is pure gold (ull know what im talking about it when u read it)