Hi

This seems to be a repeating pattern... Quite often I can pick up the hottest girl I can think of / see at a party (even made 2 GFs this way), but I just fucking cannot get any of the girls that want me... This is crazy! This has happened at least 5 times recently: when I know that the girl wants me (like mutuals friends keep telling me and other IOIs) and then I can never get more out of these situtaions than a few dates and a few kisses nothing more...

What am I doing wrong?

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"You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take."
Wayne Gretzky

Bro,

great post becuase this happens to a lot of guys A LOT MORE then people talk about. For the grils that actually want you... pretent like you dont want them... and it will make them chase you even more! Girls always want a challenge and want things they cant have... use cat string theroy agaist them. Play a little and then dont talk w em for a bit... then play some more ect ect..

Also, dont treat the girls that are "into you" any different then the girls that "arnt". If you start to show a lot of interest becuase you know these girls are interested in you.... will only HURT you in getting with them. Before you knew they liked you...you prob payed no attention to them! and THAT is why they want/wanted you lol.

Leme know what u think.

Duke

I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one, I really need to work on this one... So are you saying that I should just use push pull? How about some false disqualifiers? Should I go as far as 'false friendzoning' them?

But with most of these times I have to make the first move (like ask her out) which is a screaming IOI from my side, which makes it impossible to show that I'm genuinly not interested.

Normally I'm quite reckless with girls: using lots of cocky and funny, false disqualifiers and going for an F-close ASAP, possibly on Day 1-2.

What I do know is that with girls who have been into me I always played it waaay too low risk.... without using much gaming...

To make it short: What would you do step-by-step if you just found out that a girl who you have been paying no attention to at all is totally into you??

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"You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take."
Wayne Gretzky

Hey bro.. I've been exactly in the same situation... There's a hot model in one of my classes and I heard her say that I'm really hot and she's really in to me she gives me eye contact all the time.. IOI's all day. It's the same fucking problem. It's fucking weird man I understand you.. I can open HB's I don't know and even Kiss Close.. and I was having so much difficulty even opening this girl. I did after a while but still.. it took too much time for the easiness of the situation. The trick here is really your inner game.. your own mindset. When you discover that a HB is really attracted to you.. (and I really analyzed this a lot).. your brain starts to think patterns that if you go talk to her / start gaming her... you will mess up something and she will change her mind, by thinking : Oh.. finally he's not that good looking/that good/ that nice/ bla bla. Your ego couldn't take the fact that such a hot girl who thought your good looking changes her mind about you and isn't interested anymore. That's what happens EMOTIONALY. Now.. RATIONALY.. there's no such thing as this shit that happens .. you are creating this scenario and the moment you change your mindset and really take her for just another practice set.. you will kill it. Think about it.. you can KC in clubs with people you just met.. how about a girl that already finds you good looking?? You don't even need to build attraction.. so it's all a psychological problem. Set your mind straight and think of her as another set to practice. Don't create this false scenario that she will discover something she doesn't like about you and she will change her mind.. thats bullshit. And believe me.. I analyzed this sticking point as hell.. I know I'm right. Hope I helped! Good luck mate!!

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