if you're wondering what to do if you've already come across as needy, look no further. a single line will flip the tables on most women, so that they will try very very hard to please you, instead of you trying very very hard to please them. i call it the "down-to-business reframe"
if you're wondering on the name, let me give you a little metaphor. when a business man or investor decides to invest in a new product, he shows interest. he goes to whoever is selling the product and asks for a price. if hes a bad business man, he'll talk himself down to paying a whole lot of money for a really cheap product. (the product being the woman) now, you might be thinking whatever woman you're going for is worth a lot, and she might be. but she's not an expert business person. women almost always underestimate their own worth, which is something you'd be idiotic not to take advantage of. (if you're like me, you'll make sure her self esteem is higher after you've officially 'won' her though)
so using this principle, all you have to do is act like you're a business man and attraction is your business. you give her the down-to-business ultimatum you see on tv, where a man in a suit says to another man in a suit:
"10,000 or no deal"
and the other one says
"you're really forcing me into a corner on this one... well ok, but you better be the business venture of a lifetime like your down-to-business attitude implies"
so here it is without the metaphor:
wait until you notice yourself acting needy, and she either ignores you, is uncomfortable, or whatever the hell she does when she's turned off. or for guys who arent so needy or awkward, use it after you've flirted with her. in fact, i think this is most effective when least expected. when she's most comfortable with being unattracted to you, throw this in her face. (dont act angry, that will also be a turnoff. girls hate guys who get pissed when women aren't attracted to them. just be nonchalant about it, bring it up like random conversation.)
say something along the lines of:
"hey, well, if you're not interested, just let me know so i can stop trying so hard."
feel free to throw in:
"honestly i like you, but theres no use trying if you're not the same. i'll just use my energy some way else."
or joke around about it. it'll make you instantly appear dominant, up front, and it'll make her try to please you whether she's attracted at the moment or not.
dont be surprised if she's still not interested. the point of this isnt to immediately make her attracted, the point of this is to blow her perception of you wide open.
if she says shes not interested, say ok, smile and then say "well thats cool, i guess we'll just be friends then". then treat her like you would anyone else, act like you were never attracted to her to begin with. every time she sees you, she'll think of that moment. and she'll begin to wonder if you've forgotten all about it because you have gone back to your normal, casual self. she might bring it up again. if she does, just let her talk, because she's probably going to admit feelings or interest for you. i think the longest i've had to be patient for was a month.
and if you're playing the waiting game, flirt with other girls. theres plenty of fish in the sea. and she'll see it and wish she had taken that chance. spend more time with her as *just friends*. that will also make her wish otherwise.
if she ever comes around and tries to be with you again, dont act needy. if you act needy it might reverse her new way of seeing you. and the longer you've left her in friend zone, the easier it should be to bring up romantic / sexual interest in plain old casual conversation. it might be hard for her, but it will be easy for you. trust me, and trust the moment.
not only does this technique reverse your neediness in another girls eyes, it will also change you if you use it a lot. you'll start being less needy naturally, the more you use the patented down-to-business reframe. you'll be a business man of women, a player worth womens attention. after all, the attitude is everything
hope you enjoyed my little technique, note that it has about an 70% - 80% chance of succeeding if done right, but i guarantee thats better than the 5% chance if you just keep working harder and harder for her.
p.s. i'm looking for more forced reframe techniques that apply to this type of thing, so if theres any mpuas reading this, feel free to throw in your ideas
i'm always down to expand my wisdom on the female race
CHAT