I get the initial hook by my look with girls. Getting numbers is easy, texting is easy, going out on that first date is easy, but that's where it ends.

I text, and the conversations go well, I always push for a second/third date through texting, but never pick up the phone and call. Dates usually take place on weekends, so the whole week I need to try and maintain her attraction levels. (I always thought talking on the phone to a new girl comes off as desperate and creepy) so I ALWAYS text. This is most likely my first problem.

The next problem could be the text game itself, I go though small talk and then try to set up dates through texting, and when they turn down my date "offer" (for whatever reason) and do not offer a specific day they are free, I take it as a subtle rejection and withdraw completely, hoping they re-engage in the texting conversation.

The next problem could be that I may be coming off as too sexual too quickly. But everything I read on these forums says to BE A MAN AND MOVE QUICKLY. Is this really the case? I know you need to SHOW a woman you like her by kissing/kino, and not by telling her verbally. My sexual innuendos are intended to be cute/cocky/funny. I think they may be coming off as too sexual and the girl begins to think all I want is sex and nothing more.

My game never gets off the ground, I never get a chance to get those second and third dates and it is really starting to suck.

Please help out and suggest what I can do to better my chances at maintaining attraction.

you're not leading it to sex. if you ever go out on a date again lead it to sex.

p.s. you also don't need to do those "maintenance" texts. just text them if you want to hang

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