In my class this year, there is a girl: HB 7.5, who has my attention. Cute face, nice teeth, petite. You know the rest. Well, I'm finally getting back up on my feet from a very very ugly break-up I had with my long term ex. Only thing I have to show from it now, is packing on 70 pounds. That isn't the only reason, but I feel like I'm back to square one with everything. I feel like I had way more game when I was 14 than I do now. Which is more than likey true.

So backtracking to last Monday: HB walks into class late, and sees an open seat by me. She sits down, and I get a whiff of whatever she wearing; smelled amazing. So as class went on, she was moving around a lot in her chair: Sitting on way, then another. One leg under the other, I didn't know if this was body language positive, negative or whatever.

So now backtracking to last time we had class: yesterday. I walked in late, and was flipping out because there was a test, and the professor said 5 minutes when I was just sitting down. So I looked for the closest seat possible, and when I sat down, I saw that there was a spot open next to HB. I felt like an idiot. I turned back and shot a quick smirk ( trying to exert some confidence) So during class, I could see her out of the corner of my eye, but couldn't make out if she was looking or what. I had just gotten off work, and I still had my business attire (I work at a bank) and I felt sharp, hoping she would notice I was dressed up.

So next class, I'm determined to get a spot by her, wearing my work clothes, and wearing my favorite cologne: Abercrombie's Fierce. A lot of women like it. But if I do get a spot next to her, what should I do, or maybe say to get something initiated with this chick? I found her Facebook, and it says she is Single. So I'm sure she might want to mingle. Help the doc out here?

with the above quote you have obviously been looking into this to much....she was probably just uncomfortable, plus guys who like chicks have all the same thoughts

they see girl they like girl....so now anytime girl looks there way, brushes her hair, smiles at them, moves a certain way they automatically assume o yeah she wants me, but the sad thing is this is just a dilusion in their mind because they want to believe she wants them.....

so first thing id tell you to do is realize when it is real and when you are just grasping at straws to make up some reason as to why she may be interested in you

second....in the classroom is a tuffing its like takling to a girl on a dance floor its best to wait until your off the dance floor or in your case until your out of the class room...trying to talk during lecture isnt a smart idea.

id miss class one day and next time you have class show up just before class starts and hope you get a spot next to her. after class is over open up with i wasnt here last time what did i miss and hey my name is and then wherever you want to take it.....and then hopefully she is interested enough to get to know you more...not every girl is goign to want you or I my friend. The only thing we can do is make an attempt and hope for the best....

also stop thinking you need to sit next to her everytime and that if you dont its the end of the world....that kind of thinking isnt good...it stinks of desperation

questions?

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How You Approach Is A Matter Of How You Feel "mPUA Savior"

You Live What You've Learned

You have a great attitude, and you seem like an intelligent guy, so you will go far! Just humble yourself and listen good because some of the things I say might sound a little bit offensive, but I promise that isn't the intent. I'm going to tell you what you need to hear to improve your situation.

1. Why would you "smirk" to try to show confidence? If you're feeling uncomfortable, smirking is going to come across as fake. If you want to talk to this girl, but you haven't yet, then the fact you haven't talked to her will make you seem fake when you actually do talk to her. Women unlike most men have the uncanny ability to detect social weakness. The first step is to just get over the fear that she won't accept you for who you are, and just do it. Just talk to her.

2. I kinda gave it away at the end of my first thing, but just talk to her. The instant you see her and the class isn't in session, (before or after class is ideal) that's when you go and do it. What do you say? Well, that depends on your personality. Don't try to change according to what she wants, just go up to her and use your PUA skills you've learned in books and forums. Make your approach fun and playful. PM me if you need help with that. Quick example : Find the empty seat next to her and say something like, "I think I'll sit HERE today!" while making eye contact. Instead of a manipulative smirk, you can give her a genuine smile because it's something that truly makes you glad! Then you can go on and focus 100% on the class and completely ignore her until you feel like saying something else.

3. The fact that you used your "best cologne" and best clothing just to approach a specific girl shows an error in your method. You need to ALWAYS be putting on your best appearance and such all the time. If the girl thinks you are going out of your way to get her specifically, she will feel threatened and stalked. Does she have any friends nearby? You may want to approach her in a group of friends, and address the group to make it easier perhaps. One last thing on this subject; have a lot of prospects! Do not spend the vast majority of your time thinking about one girl. You're a great guy, and a ton of girls would be lucky to win your attention. Have that attitude, so that you don't get too let down if certain girls don't work out. All in all, that will make you more attractive.