Brief story: me and this HB got it on before in the past and now She flirts (as in talking sexual innuendos) with me on msn, facebook and while we are texting & what not. A while back ago a trusted friend of mine informed me that HB7 likes me.

Problem: The problem is that she is very flirty but acts cold & distant when i see her in person + there is this guy who is always around her whenever i see her (i don't think they are dating)

i think she is shit testing me to check my confidence and see where i stand. i want your advice as to how i isolate her (take the other guy out) and make her change her cold and distant behavior towards me.

your suggestions are welcomed,
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get her to your house, you have to be the first to show interest in front of other people, if you do it first, it is ok for her to do it

both of us are in high school so i don't think that i'll be able to bring her to my house. I think what your trying to say is that I being a guy should make the first move and then calibrate accordingly. i just learnt that indirectly that the guy who is always with her is just her best friend (emotional tampon im thinking). so now ill just focus on isolatiing

what you say?

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no not what im saying, she needs probably deniability, you hit on her in private, she can hit on you back, you go in front of people that you have not hit on her in front of, she can not hit on you, you have to do it first, as for emotional tampon, you have to control the frame, if your talking about what she wants to talk about, then she has control of the frame, yeah you also have to escalate, learn to lead

definitely will try to lead the conversation and focus on isolating her so i can take her to a private spot and start escalating. (:


cheers!
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