yeah man, I know what you're going though, been there done that

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Usually, LJBF comes from YOU not showing enough of you masculine energy. This is a very common problem for a lot of guys. The main reason is a lot of the times sexual shame. Because of the way you were brought up and of course the whole society. You see, a girl won't be interested in you sexually if you don't spark her sexual interest. All those "just got out of a relationship" crap are just excuses.
My suggestion is not a quick fix, but something that WORKS. I suggest you to look into such practices as meditation and EFT and exploring your past for shameful patterns that caused you to feel this way. If you manage to get a good discipline doing that and learn how these patterns work, it shouldn't take too long (depending on your current state of course) to be more sexual with women.
The again, I don't know you and the problem might be more complicated.
PM me if you have some more questions.
Cheers,
Ivan
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I keep getting lets just be friends.....I manage to get some attraction ask her to go somewhere with me, low pressure date.....then when I give them an IOI boom the hammer comes.
Going to literally copy and paste and example from another threat as you need an example of what my game looks like:
Met a girl during college, joked around with here a bit, she play fought me a couple of times now....so I decided it was time to pull the trigger and ask her to go somewhere with me.
First time I ask her to help me pick out a gift for a friend.
She had a family weekend so couldn't.
Asked her a week later, she had plans for that weekend as well, maybe some other time?
Wanted to set up something this time so asked her if she could go on Fridays?
She answered Mondays would be way better for the both of us since we have 2 non-scheduled hours then.
She got her guard way up and was all like, I just came out of a 2,5 year relationship, Im not really doing the whole flirting thing right now yadayadayada, meeting up is cool but how about just a friendly get to getter?
(It's very roughly translated from my native language, but it basically comes down to LJBF). Ofcourse I tried turning the whole thing around on her saying: Geezus, I'm not asking you to marry me, I just want to get to know you. If I like you after that then maybe I'll ask you on a date, or if you are just cool I'll adopt you as my new little sister.
How to get over this sticking point?
Cheers, Olivier
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