So lately I've been having this issue where in the middle of my game I have a flash dump hit me, and I've gotta go to the bathroom and lay waste to the toilet for like 20 minutes. Tonight, this girl was liking me, things were going well, then boom! I was escalating kino with the toilet seat. Anyway, I came back and she had to have known what had happened and she was still intent on sharing some bar food with me which I found ballsy since she didn't know whether I had washed my hands or not. Anyway, things went alright the rest of the night, number close, but I feel like my blowing up the toilet may have blown up my spot. Do girls care? I mean, all guys poop, and so do ugly girls, but does my doing this in her presence create to much of a damning mental picture? I know this is relatively humorous but I actually would like your thoughts.

Frame control

I've taken shits in public when I was out with girls before. I was just like "brb I gotta shit"

Then I took a shit and came back acting like everything was normal (aside from a few shitting-related comments like "That feels better now!")...because everybody poops. It's fucking normal.

If you expect it to be a deal breaker, your frame is "If I poop, that's gonna be a deal breaker. She will find me less attractive." Your frame rubs off on other people.

If you expect it to be nothing and just normal like a cough or a sneeze, your frame is "It's normal. It could be funny, but it's still normal." Your frame rubs off on other people.

How would you feel if a girl went to take a shit and came back to talk to you? In the end (haha) it's not so bad, huh?