Ok so I was hanging with this girl for a little while and felt pretty on top of my game, even though it probably only felt that way, but in any case it went well. I was building lots of attraction, getting IOI's, and had her at my mercy lol. Anyways I came to find out that she's moving away in a few weeks for college and she doesn't want a "relationship", perfect right? Well she spent the next week out of town, we sent texts back and forth, and overall she seemed like she would die to be back. She comes back, and I fuck up. I loose my grip on attraction and don't push foreword at all, and now I'm pretty much in the friend-zone. No more IOI's, no more attraction, and no more fucking sex!

I'm thinking that all I really have to do is grow some balls and push foreword, take charge, and give her what she probably still wants. And if it goes downhill, then who gives a fuck, she's moving away anyways.

Some tips on slowly (or stealthily) building attraction back up, instead of going right in and making things awkward should help me out a lot. Thanks.