So I think this is a sticking point because I have hit this wall several times. Usually when a girl says she doesn't sleep with guys they don't date I will give it s few my tries..change up my approach and move on if nothing happens. Well things changed when I met my neighbor...
Long story short....its been several weeks of approach (weve known each other for few months..no approach before due a nasty break up and school) with the same response..no I dont sleep with guys I dont date/have a future with (She is leaving for graduate school on Europe and I am locked down here in the states). On two nights we got very close...but she would stop and say shes never done this before..she doesnt want her heart broken. I tried all the usual things I could think of, explained how good we are together, why we should enjoy each others company etc.

I actually really like this girl and would date her if she stayed..but damnit she is so gorgeous and fun I feel I have to sleep with her. I feel like I've done everything and I am leaving for military training in a few days...would love to close this. ANY advice for this situation and future situations...it is driving me nuts!

Really must be mission impossible if no one has any advice.