So I met this girl about a month ago and we hit it off. I'm talking about a real quality girl; Gorgeous face and a perfect personality.
I know i'm special to her because she told me after 2 weeks intimate things that only her family knows about, she almost never kisses a guy but she kissed me on the first night we met, she's still a virgin at the age of 21 (I'm 18 btw) because she's extremely picky and told me that she wanted me to be her first one.

But it was becoming too serious so i stopped responding to her messages and basically ignored her because i wouldn't let this girl get me to fall in love and eventually hurt me. Ironically, this is exactly what happened haha :p.

She sent me 2 messages at the same day, asking what's wrong, where i didn't respond to and after that we didn't communicate for a week. I saw her yesterday at some common friend's house and we just said hi but nothing more. When we both left at the same time we were all alone outside where she just said goodbye and left. It's driving me crazy :p! Why doesn't she try to seek my attention or get me back?

Advice about getting over her or getting her back without looking needy would be appreciated.

someone please answer this question cuz im in the same boat

I've over frozen and over negged girls before and it's difficult but not impossible to come back from. By the sound of it you've totally ignored her and she's taken that as you don't want anything to do with her and is trying to move on.

Just saying 'hi' at the party isn't alpha though dude, you should to be attractive and seductive at all times. An important lesson I learnt from the community is to be approachable and comfortable at all times i.e. never create or be associated with a negative SPAM. Even if I saw a long term ex at a party my confidence and charm would create an SPAM in which we could talk and I bet I would be able to make her wana fuck me again....even if the break up was messy!

Back to your situation though - I'd say you should send her a text or fb message out of the blue about a private joke you shared, a random story that will make her laugh etc. something high energy that isn't down beat and will convey positive energy. That way you won seem needy and it will give you the chance to get the conversation back on its feet.

But dude, you need to get your head sorted on what you want; you said you broke her off because things were getting too serious, so do you really want to start chatting to her again? Maybe you feel that you want her because she isn't giving you the attention she used to and you feel rejected?

Let us know how you get on

G

I sent her a funny and attractive message where she did respond to very well. We texted for a few hours but something just didn't feel the same like before. In my opinion she hasn't forgotten that i blocked her out completely and therefore was reticent.

Normally she would text me everyday without me doing any kind of effort. Therefore it's very annoying for me to be the one that sends the first message because i never needed to do that.

What should i do next?