We had a crush on each other in high school, but her boyfriend was in the way. Afterwards she ended up having a son with the dude and now shes sorta stuck with him.

Now i'm still in touch with her and i really like her. I've tried EVERYTHING. First the afc way and let her know that i thought she was the world bla bla bla. She ended up saying she would be with me if it weren't for this same dude that she always has problems with. i would always say why not just leave the guy. she would always respond even till today "because i dont want my son to grow up like that because i grew up like that and it was very hurtful"

Time passed and we didn't talk for a while then when we found each other again. i told her my crush for her was gone and started treating her like a friend until one day it came back and i told her it did. she then told me all she could offer me was her friendship and she couldn't take any steps forward.

after that i decided her friendship was better then nothing. so now im in the friend zone, but yet we still flirt and talk about having so much together and how we wish things could be different and we could be together. I see her maybe once or twice a month because she's always "busy". but when were together those nights we treat each other as if were going out. we cant keep our hands off each other. I've tried going in for the kiss, but she dodges it and says laughing "you know i cant".

What the fuck do i do?! shes teasing the shit out of me. what could i do to have her more after me instead of settling with me with this flirty friend zone we have going on? I need to flip the script. I need her wanting me more then that asshole she always complains about. I need her to take that step and leave that dude.

I have the option of talking to her online all day mon-fri. but i know i shouldn't speak to her too often. I rather speak to her on the phone which is more meaningful but its barely a possibility with her guy around 24/7.

ps: No, I'm not moving on and yes i do get other bitches on the side, but this girl is a keeper and she has been for many years.

I need her wanting me more then that asshole she always complains about.

This is a common story bro, hot girl that never leaves the asshole that treats her like sh*t. Do you think she will leave him for a nice guy? Why should she? He provides her with all the drama and excitement she needs. Add to the fact that you've been in the friend zone for so long, I can honestly say your chances are slim to none my friend.

I have nothing else to comment on since you are hell bent on sticking around this situation. All I can say is good luck, you're going to need it.

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