I'm stuck at the moment... I went on an awesome double date a few nights ago, It was with a friend of a friend who i hadn't seen for a few years and her friend(girl) and a friend of mine (male). problem is now I'm going to see her again but her friend will be there too. I don't know how to move past the friend stage to close her when there is other people around... what do I do?

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Jebz

"Success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm." Winston Churchill

save the closing until you and the girl are alone. its ok to kino tho.

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In my opinion, if you want to take it, is that you should wait until theres a conversation about doing something in the future.. ect if you guys are into soccer or art or clubbing or something, and just take out your phone and say in a confident voice " Im gonna take your number down and well go and do something like that " and just hand her the phone.

Im not PUA, but I had success with that last night ..

yeah i have her number already but she lives with her mate and they came out here together so they do everything together...

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Jebz

"Success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm." Winston Churchill

Im in a similar situation. I know how to isolite girls etc but when she is with loads of friends I kind of get lost.

I always worry then that I will get put in the friend zone becuase I didnt close or make my intentions shown early on but I find it hard when she is with her group.

The only time I have ever got over something like this is by asking her out on her own. I always feel more relaxed when its just me and her. This isnt always possible though so would also like some advice on this subject. I guess the only answer really is to try and isolite her and kino escalate am I right?

Dude... Is the friend that she's bringing female? If so, GAME HER!

I am not kidding! You do not want to give your target all the attention. Game her friend and both of them will be fighting for your attention.

Something similar happened to me and I almost ended up with a 3-some by running game on both of them. Got a 3 way makeout, but ended the night alone. Long story... search the forum if you want to know the whole story.

A tip... keep the girl you like in between you both at all times, but focus your attention on her friend. Throughout the night, gradually shift your attention away from her friend to the girl you like.

As for closing, I guess it depends on how old you are. For some reason I read this and believe you're in high school or something. Kids in school don't like everyone seeing them get a kiss and would rather do that type of thing in private. My age group is different. After I feel the mood is right, I'll go in for a kiss in front of her friends. We're all adults so it's never been a problem.