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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 25, 2011 3:41 pm 
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This is a long post but it could make a HUGE difference in your game

This is a subject that is a little controversial, basicly its on compliments and letting the girl know you like her, mystery method guys tend to have the biggest problem with this, so just to put it out there

IT IS OK TO COMPLIMENT AND LET GIRLS KNOW YOU LIKE THEM


but dont just take my word for it, have a watch of these videos

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dIq58si1pB4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BMZoqXvH6CE (listen to Sinn says about his friend future at the start and listen Sinns story at the end)

I'm no fan of Sinn I dont fallow his teaching but the guy has plenty of valid points to make and does know his stuff, even if he does tend to over complicate things

See the problem with compliments is compliments with no justification, everybody is doing that, some times they work but most of the time the girl will be thinking hes only after one thing

What does a girl mean by "hes only after one thing"

Basicly it means that she thinks you think she is easy, which equals dumb or stupid etc, It doesn't mean she doesn't want to have sex she just wants to know that you actually like her

GIRLS WANT TO HAVE SEX AS MUCH AS YOU DO, IF NOT MORE!

Captain jack talks about things like, when you are talking to a girl and all of a sudden the set goes to hell, she loses interest and moves on

You'll find this happens alot with indirect and the reason as Captain Jack would put it is because she has figured out that you don't get it, you have no idea why she is there and you are wasting her time while she could be hooking up with a guy who understands what its all about

Guys like Hypnotica compliment, he even talks about it in his infield insider, Adam Lyons is the main reason for this post, his material made me realise alot of shit that I was told not to do when started out (and by the way it was stuff I had done in the past before community bullshit convinced me not to) like compliment, the only thing was I didn't know how to do it properly and it would only work every so often

I give all credit to Adam Lyons for what I'm going to write, and for waking me up again

When you compliment you are hitting on her, you are giving her IOI's, but to make it consistantly believable you have to give a reason

e.g.

"I like the way you have your hair, It remains me of the way spanish girls had their hair when I was in madrid, those girls really understand how to be sexy and stand out"


Hit on girls, let them know you like them, when Captian Jack explains his game he says all he really does is set sexual frames and then tell the girl he likes her.

You can talk for hours all you want, but if you don't let the girl know you like her she'll figure you just don't get it and she'll either walk off or friend zone you

My realisation for this was, on my facebook theres a girl that I had a little fling with when I first started out in game when I didn't really know what the hell I was doing, I came so fucking close to having sex with her, this was a girl previously so far outa my league that when I first approached her she treated me like I was a bad smell

that was two years ago, but she left for a year and came back, so I decided I was going get this chick again, anyway, I'd been trying to game her and out of everything that worked and got her attention it was commenting on a photo of her dressed up like a moulin rouge girl using what I talked about above, this has been the only time she has actually responeded by commenting on a photo I'd put up a few days later, shes never wrote on my profile ever before.

I now know how to game her, and the next time I'm at a house party with her or in the position to talk I'll be able to fully sort it out, I already know she likes me but somewhere down the line she has thought I didn't get it and that I'll just waste her time, but she'll know soon enough I know whats up now my game is at the level it is

So long story short, let girls know you like them, compliment them once at some stage of the set and give a reason why you think they are sexy and you'll see how far it takes you

if anyone doesn't understand any of this post fire your questions my way because I wrote this post fast, I'm open for discussing and clarification

http://www.youtube.com/user/infieldpuaexamples check out this channel on youtube, it has some good videos, watch the cajun video, these keys to the vip clips are all good examples of how far complimenting can take you, just don't over do it and remember to give a justified reason for the compliment


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I agree that most of my buddies who never close always just forget to express intention. I am a big can of comfort location kclosing. I only ever compliment as an IOI if she passes a compliance test though.

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try complimenting her earlier, compliment her on being sexy but have a reason for it, instead of just rewarding her for qualification answers

you might like what you find :)


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Good post!

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try complimenting her earlier, compliment her on being sexy but have a reason for it, instead of just rewarding her for qualification answers

you might like what you find :)
So this weekend I did try to compliment correctly... I failed. Not because it's a bad idea but because I fucking blow at it. I can tell that if I got better with it it would work though. This'll be the next thing I work on. Thx.

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Good man!!!! there is no failure just feed back!

the first time it works for you make sure you remember what you said and what it was about, then try the same thing out on other girls, if it works consistantly on about ten different girls you can start to change the wording up, there hair is a good place to start, I love big fucking hairdos with fringes, pitty bout the chicks with boring ass hair thou they fuck my compliment game up big time lol

"aw yeah i love how your really boring straight parted in the middle haircut that took you 5 minutes to brush really makes you stand out in the crowd you got really plain style, it really suits you................."

instead of what i want

"Sorry to be so forward but damn your looking good tonight, its the way you do your hair, it stands out, (hi I'm ram, the guy thats gona be bangin you tonight, oh is this your friends, hey her friends I can't wait to suck your friends tits what you guys upto tonight?)..."

and so on...

disclaimer - whats in brackets is not what I would say so if you get scratched for it please don't blame ram :D thank u


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Excellent post.

This is very much a sticking point for me and one of the key areas that I need to fix. My combination of gentle teasing & not giving off any IOIs doesn't do me any favours. I need to get the right calibration between not coming off needy but still actually expressing some interest!

Will have a look at those links cheers.


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I agree for the most part. There is definitely a wrong and right way and time to compliment.

Here is another great post on complimenting girls:
http://www.effectiveattraction.com/blog ... for-girls/

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