hey guys,

so i met this girl a while ago, but she was in a relationship until recently. we hung out the last couple weeks, and things went really well! I feel like I've captured her interest and attention, but then she had to leave for summer. before she left, I was completely non-needy, not bringing up relationship topics as not to potentially mess things up.. since she's been gone, Ive been restricted to phone and fb game... the problem is, she plays hard to get.. well.. she rarely ever initiates any conversations, but responds well to my initiations.. recently i froze her out for a few days, and nothing.. since then, i texted and had a nice fun convo, and some fb stuff.. she responds well, as i mentioned, but I want to be careful to not over-do conversation and potentially scare her off.. I feel like an afc with this girl, because she is always on the mind. how can i remedy this? how should I continue this relationship? should I just continue the small texts every couple days? should i forget the whole thing? should I dhv over fb with others? any help is greatly appreciated!

Do you know when she is coming back? If she leaves for like 4-5 months that is definitely gonna kill the attraction beacuse you can't compete with real flesh and blood ppl around her (probably also gaming her if she's any hot).

I think you should't go after her to hard, that would come off creepy. DHV on facebook, ask your female friends to post flirty/funny things on your wall. Get other options. You can really improve your game on her if you are gaming more girls simultanously IRL so she won't be on your mind all the time.