Theres this girl that I met back in September or October when I was still an AFC. I was using C&F and it was working great on her, a week later we hang out at a party (first time outside of school) and I end up hooking up with her that night. Just kissing and she took her top off, no lay. We were both drunk and I remember her saying she wanted to have sex with me, but nothing ended up happening. After that we kept talking, but she had just gotten out of a LTR and ended up trying to work things out with her ex and LJBF me. At first I said I didn't wanna be friends and that I liked her (AFC move) but then I agreed we'd be friends. I froze her out for 3-4 weeks and came back being more flirty and sexual, but now she has a girlfriend (she's bi). She's said things before like "I need to have real sex, this lesbian stuff isn't cutting it" and other little clues, but she's always been flirty so its hard to tell what the IOIs are. We are pretty close friends now, but if I still have a chance with her I wanna take it. There was definitely a lot of initial attraction from her in the beginning, so at this point should I try freezing her out until she breaks up with her gf, or cut my losses and move on?

This is a unique story, shes bi! thats awesome. What do you want out of the relationship?

Do you want a LTR or just some sexual activity?

From how it sounds, the LTR probably won't work. But if you want to get with her, get drunk and have some fun.

I have had a bang buddy last summer. We were normal friends with moderate flirting, then we would get drunk and go to turbotown.

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