Only putting this in this section because I didn't know where else to put it, although its not strictly a sticking point.

About a year ago I had a nightmare with one girl who nothing I tried worked on and she LJBF'd me. The only time that has ever happened to me. I decided there was nothing to get out of the situation so I cut her out my life.

About a month ago I saw her in a club & she was all over me. When I asked her what the difference between a year ago & then was she said it was because she missed me. I saw her again in a club last week and she wasn't really interested.

After watching a talk by Matt Hussey, he said that in every difficult situation, you have 2 options; walk away or make the best of the situation and grow from it. This made me decide that I am going to have to make this situation work next time I see her.

I see recovering from this and laying this girl is the biggest challenge I have come across in the game, Any advice?

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There's plenty more clunge in the sea

First of all srry for my english.
I think she only profits of you when you are around. You should done negs on her, when you meet her after one year. Telling her that she has to win you again or something like that. Now, will not be so hard to rebegin the game, but i think you have to be more indiferent.
Hope i don't tell any crap as i am just a beginer.
But good luck man!
Wish you the best