I'm having a serious problem here, I have Sex-Relationships with a few different girls, and I'm doing quite ok from approaching girls till f-closing them, as long as I have personal, direct contact with them I'm able to build enough attraction & comfort till we end up in bed.

BUT then I'm having a problem in establishing a long term Sex-Relationship with them. I don't know if/when I should contact them again without showing too much neediness. For example actually I'm contacting my girls ~ once every 1-2 weeks.

But on one hand I'm thinking that would show them that I "need" them, which is a DLV and lowers their attraction to me. One the other hand the girls attraction to me cools down if I don't try to stay in touch

AND I hate messaging & phone calls as means of communication, cause it cut's me of from delivering my game, my personality properly to them....

How do you guys handle that, any ideas/solutions for my problem?

well at least you are lucky enough to have several steady girls. I only have one chick that I recently fucked around with. Having the same issue though with not wanting to come across as needy. But I think the answer there is NOT being needy. To be a master PUA one should be so busy with fun things and new girls that you forget about the past chicks. And then they call you wondering where you have been.

On the other hand I flat out asked this chick if she is into polyamory. She said yes, probably. So that basically implies that we would probably be seeing other people and maybe get together every few weeks. I probably made the mistake of trying to push another sex date on her after a week and she seems to have felt crowded by me. Anyhow, I am not a master PUA at all so I am curious to see how other people respond.

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When pretending not to care what she thinks becomes really not caring what any of them think...that day I will be a PUA.

Yesterday I decided that I'm going to start some kind of test. I'll put my girls into two groups,
with Group A I'll try to keep very close contact, but try to avoid neediness. i.e. instead of messaging them frequently with stuff like "how are you today?" I'll simply try to constantly DHV, by sending out messages like "I'm actually hanging out with Friends at .....", "Having fun at the Beach..." etc. And that 2-3 times per week.

And with Group B I'll simply keep the contact very limited, and wait for THEM to initiate a conversation, or only contact them once every 2-3 weeks.

We'll see what works better, but I think Group A will do better