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So im having problems after meeting the girl. right now im in high school so everyone knows each other to an extent. anyways, so whenever i meet someone i always branch out and make new friends by meeting my friends friends and making them my friends. and whenever i meet a girl or a group of girls i always act outgoing and flirty towards them and 90% of the time we'll start a conversation, i will always flirt/use kino and she would send IOI's and after getting her number or getting to know her a bit better, i would ask them out in a time span of 1 week to 1 month, and i will always get the "lets be friends" speech. this has gone on for about 4-6 girls now after i found this site and started reading "the game" every time i meet a new girl i always change it up to see if new things work. im just wondering at what point am i messing up on in where they transcend me from a possible boyfriend to a just a friend.
I would have to see it in action. A lot of times I see this happen when guys start trying to build comfort without ever getting attraction. It also happens if guys do any complaining, whining, sap stories, or other negative shit.
If you are doing either of those then you can stop that.
I recently got the friend zone speech because I failed to escalate when the window was open. I took it as a personal challenge and now the girl is my #1 girl and I'm banging her on the steady.
Here is how
Her - Friend zone speech
Me- "You don't need to give me the friend zone speech, we have fun together and that's really what's important to me.
18 hours of freeze out later she is chasing me. This will ONLY work if you have already built ATTRACTION.