I'm 17 and i don't have any problems attracting girls now. life's great.

BUT...

I'm a virgin and a hb8 wants me to fuck her. She even made a plan for when her parents aren't home.

Here's my problem

I don't know if I should have my first time with this girl, we've only been talking for 2 weeks. I just don't know if the emotional baggage is worth it, especially since my parents would be disappointed if they found out because they want me to focus on my future right now.

Any advice will be appreciated. What would you guys do in my situation?

hey man follow ur heart man, if u dont want to be/lose it with this particular girl, you dont have to... at the end of the day its YOUR DECISION!

i dont know if u notice it or not but if u read ur OP, and reread it, ud notice that u've already answered your own question.

if everything is good in ur life then that... that shouldnt be called a problem, just tell the girl no...

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Well if I wanted to bang her I would. If I didn't want to I wouldn't (SIMPLE). I think you need to stop thinking so much about how much people(parents, friends, family) will view you by your actions, and do what you actually want to do.

You think there is emotional baggage with having sex with a girl after 2 weeks. That could be that case since you are in High School. I don't like to shit where I eat. But me personally, have had sex with a girl within 10 minutes of meeting her. If there was drama/baggage I would have never seen her again.

No one can tell you but yourself. I'm 22 now, but I always wish I could go back to when I was in High School. I would of thought so differently, and my life would have been so much more awesome. That is part of growing though. It takes a lot of time & effort. In the end it doesn't even matter. All you can do is think of your life as a movie...a movie that is awesome.

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DO IT.

You're fucking 17 man. This is what life is about. Your parents wanting you to focus on other shit is frankly weird. A healthy sex life is incredibly important for emotional and physical well-being. To be as successful in life as possible, you must have stable, fulfilling relationships as well as a career, financial stability, and so forth. Hell, if you're parents hadn't been having sex, you wouldn't even be here! (You're welcome for that mental image )

I would recommend getting David Shade's "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms" so you can make your first time as awesome as possible for her and for yourself.

As for emotional baggage, that's more the GIRL's problem rather than yours. If she wants to do it, then go for it. Nobody's saying you have to fucking marry her just because you guys had sex. It's just sex. I know it seems like a huge deal now, but it's just something people do. It's totally natural, normal, and fun!

USE A CONDOM

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" It's just sex. I know it seems like a huge deal now, but it's just something people do. It's totally natural, normal, and fun!"


When I was in high school I made a big deal about sex too. I later realized that girls are fucking pervs who want to get laid more than guys. They seriously love cock, and want you to cum all over their face while you call them a dirty girl. All the girls in my school were banging the cool dudes, and I thought they probably never had sex.

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