So this is my major sticking point. How do i built up sexual tension and kino escalation during a day 2?


I dont really have a problem with attracting a woman, setting up the day 2. The often even text me they are looking forward to the day 2.

But than its day 2.... and it always end's like this... We had a good time, the were no silences...we had enough things to talk about. BUT no sexueal tension, i cant even get to a k-close. The k-close itself is not the problem i think, getting the right tension to escalate to a k-close is the problem if you ask me. The girls even often text me after the day 2 (they text first) that they had a great time... (wtf if you had a great time than why not build sexuael tension?)

To get things more specific. Im dating for a serious relationship. I date girls that are 22 years or older (i'm 25). Do I need more compliance tests and which ones? Should i simply take their hand? and walk with them?

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TALK ABOUT SEX

HOLD SEDUCTIVE EYE CONTACT

TOUCH HER

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Couldn't agree more. She'll have an entirely different perception of you if you're constantly making eye contact, and touching her (even if it is small, like on the shoulder) when you talk. Re-read the post above mine, straight to the point.

Easy, set up talking about cocktails and shots and their names, bring up "quick fuck" (baileys and midori) or "sex on the beach" and comment that the shot doesn't really do justice to the name because the drink is "too smooth" where as a real quick fuck is spontaneous, sharper, less sensual, more primal...... Play with it, ask her what she thinks the shot should be called. If she is interested in the interaction make it more personal.

Its not in her face, you are not being scummy, it leads on from something innocent. It builds comfort, it builds tension, it can DHV if you know your drinks. Its under the radar.

Thnx Zodiac, you are specific... i like that...


Blondguy thnx for your post and thnx for trying to help me, but you ain't really helping me (don't get me rong). You are kinda vague. I need specific tips, i understand that i have to touch her, hold eye contact, talk about sex, but how?

If she is setting next to me, how do i touch here without being obvious?

With girls with the age of 22 of older i just cant simply start talking about sex.... how i lead into that?

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I'm not an expert, but I'll give you my opinion.

In terms of touch, do little things and escalate from there. For example: touch her when you talk. Every time you say something give a small touch on the arm, shoulder or whatever feels comfortable (accompanied by a confident smile). One thing that I jump at the chance for would be putting your hand around her neck and leaning in to "tell a secret" or to speak up if its loud around you. When you're next to her, lean in, almost invade her personal bubble. Dont' do so much to creep on her, and look to see if she stays where she is or leans away. If she stays there/leans towards you, you're in a good position. I highly recommend watching disc 2 of gambler's stealth seduction. Its free, and at the bottom of the main page. I didn't think it was that amazing until I tried it out myself. Really helped on my kino. That our just do any research on kino, there's some powerful information on the web out there.

In terms of eye contact, straight up look into her eyes when you talk. It's pretty self explanatory. Just keep contact, and keep a smile to show that you're confident, and in control.

Regarding talking about sex, bring up topics about relationships/use dhv stories about sex. Use the word sexy, as well as other words similar, as an adjective. Bring stories up regarding it, and if you're cocky/funny enough, incorporate it a little bit more directly. Just do anything that will make her think about sex, and hopefully it will make her think about having sex with you.

EX:

HB: Yeah so (blah blah blah)
Waldo: What you want to have sex with me?
HB: What?
Waldo: Oh thats not what you said, you said blah blah blah. But that's cool too.

(I couldn't find the source to the line I used, but I didn't create it. Still searching for source)

Hope it helps!
-Waldo


EDIT: Credit goes to Chief for that line

Any progress?

Agree with what the guys have already mentioned.

But just flirt straight from the meet up. Teasing, eye contact, touching, play fighting etc

You can easily gauge whether she is or would be willing. By the sound of it she is, anyway let us know.

Flirt Flirt Flirt ic ya can man

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yeah...

the kino is working better now... a 26 married woman really liked me this weekend...
but the problem she was married ghehe...

but i can stil work on the sexual tension i think...

thnx for the tips

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