Heya,

So I'm in my 3rd year of University and I've known this girl since I've came to school but only recently have actually been chatting with her frequently.

After a couple of weeks of really talking she ended up sleeping over one night but we merely kissed. I genuinely like this girl as we have a lot in common so I'm trying not to be too pushy with anything.

However, I ended up walking with her a couple of times after this event and not ending up trying to kiss her but rather left giving her a hug. This definitely hurt my case I know.

Things seemed to be getting dry and now I've seemed to find myself in arbitrary bullshit texting with her that isn't getting me anywhere.

I got pretty irritated with this so last weekend I asked if she'd like to come over to chill and sleep over. She said she had to wake up early but thanks for the offer and then followed it with library invite for the next day. Naturally I was like fuck and told her I'd probably just stay in and to have a good night.

She always sends texts like does "anyone" want to have lunch? Does "anyone" want to go to the library later?

I don't know how to properly respond to these texts but it seems like I'm either getting fucked or she may be too shy to ask directly or doesn't care enough I have no idea right now.

Any ideas/help to my case would be helpful thanks.

Go for it. be more agressive. i was in the same situation as u.
i liked this girl shes in my class, we started out pretty good i feel shes attractived to me but, i was scared to make a move i thought it would be too early. and now
im in the friend zone and shes into my friend. either u go for it, or lose it and find a new one like i am right now. i used to be shy and didnt take risk
but F that now, i want to be the greatest PUA. haha