I failed two times in a row this weekend. both with the same problem. I get the number i set up the date. we have fun and get along and then....nothing. I feel like seduction is inappropriate at times or too late to do it because ive already fallen into the friend zone.

girl number 1

we go out get some drinks and head to my place. she sits on my floor close to a stereo to be dj and i join her. she goes on her phone texting and i take it from her and we play fight a little but then she backs away and agrees to put the phone away. were both listening to music and bored of talking but i know if i were to go for the kiss she would not expect it and get a little angry maybe. so i do nothing except continue looping in the same routine. Before i know shes so bored she decides to go home and is gone. fail.

girl number 2

we go to a nice restaurant and eat and chat having a good time laughing. Shes a little shy so wen i make eye contact she always breaks it. she tells me ho she has a lot of guy friends. i end up feeling like one of them. we finish eating. i pay we leave. talk a little and i drop her home. No idea where to insert seduction there. i keep thinking if i do anything she'll reject me because at no point did she give me any ioi's. now i recently did the stupidest thing and said in a text to her " i had a nice time tonight. i think i maybe even developed a little crush on you". She hasnt responded at all after that. fail.

How do i increase sexual tension between us and have that little i like u and u like me vibe. With a girl i meet at a club its no problem because they know whats going down but a girl i take out i have to do something more and i keep falling in the friend zone with them.

Stop thinking, she came back to your place for a reason.... now make your move.
This would be a good time to kiss her.

Stop thinking about ioi's... the ioi she gave you is to agree to go out with you. A wise man once told me that for every 1 IOI you notice, you'll miss at least 9. Stop looking for IOI's, stop thinking so much, and just do it. Progressively escalate with touch, if she's ok with you touching her intimate, that's your fucking IOI. If she doesn't like it she'll tell you verbally or non-verbally.

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I agree... you should just go for it. she's at your house man. she's there for a reason.

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