wow dude ur the opposite to me when i started out.
see once i opened a set, i neva fell short of things to say. the only problem was finding sets to approach and getting over Approach anxiety coz i neva followed the 3 second rule.
anyways ive discovered that the secret to having a flowing, happy fun conversation and at the same time flirt and be sexy, is to make her feel like she needs to put in the effort. it sounds hard but once u do it, ull see how insane it is. if u ask to much questions then she'll expect to only respond to ur questions and it'll come to silence soon enough. rememba to look into her eyes when things get silent, dont show nervousness, the girl will neva EVER blow u off or walk away if u do this.
the only time she'll eva walk away because of awkward silence is once u stop looking at her and look around the room, look at ur feet, the bar etc. then she'll be like "anyways nice to meet you" and walk off. talk to her, and whilst ur talking to her, u can look at her half the time, and also move ur eyes around the room sometimes because once things get silent, u can then focus into her eyes, sending the message "i like you, im fine to sit here in silence". and the girl will almost always come out with saying something.
the conversation will neva end untill u choose.
CHAT