I met this girl at grad school a couple weeks ago. I bumped into her again yesterday afternoon in the computer lab, and we arranged to meet up after class. So we then went for dinner and a drink, paid our own way. It went well, but I can't tell if she likes me or just being friendly.

The following seem like indicators of interest:

- The conversation was easy, and she told me about herself. I.e what she's done since undergrad, where's she's lived, different phases of her life etc.
- Asked me questions such as what I wanted to do, where I saw myself, why I decided to go to grad school, etc
- She did alot of talking, whilst also letting me speak.
- There was also quite a bit of laughing and whenever I teased her, she seemed to laugh.
- She said that she had seen my facebook profile pic (bear in mind, I'd only met once before)
- She put her hand on my arm/shoulder a few times when speaking.
- Soon after I got home that night, she added me on facebook.
- She invited me to a halloween party (which I declined as my friend is also having one, but I said she should come along)
- Most the time we spoke, there was eye contact
- Said she had a fun time and that I should get in touch when I get a new phone (I lost mine)

However there are few things that make me wonder if she's just being friendly:

- She mentionned an ex-boyfriend and also a couple people she dated in the past. Maybe she's just testing me to see how I respond.
- She also said I reminded her of one of her best guy friends.
- It seems like she has quite a few guy friends.
- She's in the same department, maybe she's just trying to make new friends.

What do you guys think? There seemed like some good IOIs, especially the facebook add soon after getting home, shows she was thinking about me afterwards. However there were a few 'friend' signs.

When you say "she has a few guy friends" is that as in she's slept with these "guy friends"? or is that as in she has actual guy friends and not many lady friends?
well its hard to comment... were you kino escalating the whole time? did she playfully hit you when you teased her? i personally probably would have tried to k-close her... you might need to make your intent clear... if you dont show sexual interest in her then you will most likely fall into the friend zone...

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Not that she's slept with, just friends who are guys.

I didn't try to k-close her, wasn't sure on the situation. But yeah I should try to escalate and show interest. Any tips?