A huge sticking point when I first started game was
overthinking everything I did, everything!
Whenever I wanted to go and
approach a girl on the street, talk to a girl at school, tell a girl at a nightclub that she was cute or even just get out of the house and approach girls, guess what.. I couldn’t because I overthought everything and ended up not approaching anyone, feeling frustrated and most of all, feeling like I let myself down.
Even when I got the nerve to finally, get out the house and approach a girl – I hesitated, either because I took too long to make a decision or because I allowed external factors to affect my internal state.
So instead of overthinking everything and getting myself frustrated, asking myself things like;
‘Why do I feel frustrated?’ or ‘Do I remember everything I have learnt?’ - I just did it! I approached women, I left my house, I was sociable by myself, WITHOUT the need to be with my friends because I didn’t let my thoughts get the better of me.
So what did I do that was so special?
Simple, I implemented the ’
3 Second Rule’ into my daily life and within two weeks –
everything I did became a reflex.. If I saw a beautiful blonde on her bike in the middle of the street (even if I didn’t feel like approaching), I approached her in 1….. 2…… 3…… approach!!!!
This became a reflex action within two weeks!
But guess what, I got into my old habit of overthinking everything and I couldn’t be bothered doing anything – as a result I didn’t keep to the THREE SECOND RULE.. And I went back into my old habits.
It’s a rule for a reason, keep to it..
So, whenver I noticed I was overthinking something and getting frustrated.. within three seconds I would do what I needed to do –
even though I didn’t feel like doing it.
You see, by keeping to this rule in your daily life.. your inner game changes dramatically in a short period of time and improves because you are experiencing events that you originally had deep negative thoughts towards, not only that, but you are noticing that the outcome of your ‘approach’ was different to what you expected it to be..
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