Hi I have tried a couple of negs such as:

hey nice shoes...then she goes thanks blah blah.... and I go did you buy them new?

and she goes yeah I bought them new.

or what kind of question is that? I bought them new.


Or I try nice fingernails, are they real?

and they go, of course they are real.

And there arent a lot of laughing or they wouldnt have the how can you say that kind of face on.

What am I missing here? Are those the reactions I want?

Being new to all of this, my guess would be that you want that kind of reaction and you want to build on it

Example: "Are those fingernails real?"

She says: "Of course"

You Say: "Really now? Because mine are real too and they look nothing like that!"

(Being new to all of this please critique my example LoL)

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You cant just throw a neg out there without thinking.
Observe the girl, and adapt.

Did she dye her hair? No? Then dont use your fecking canned material commenting about her hair!

I reckon if you neg her based on her physique, like something that stands out about her. Then it shows that youre interested. Everyone has shoes and nails. Mention her clothing or accent. Something Unique about her.

Thought #1: Girls are people, too. They have bad days too. Their dog may have just died. They may have just lost their job. They may have just gotten dumped by their boyfriend. Or they may be going through their period and feel more pain than if you got nailed in the nuts.

Give the girl the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she is just not in the mood for talking that day. It may NOT be YOUR fault. Move on and find another girl to approach. A major portion of the game is not getting your balls tied up in a knot when an approach goes to hell on a silver platter - know there are other girls out there who will enjoy you more and whom you will enjoy more in return and FIND them.

Thought #2: How you say something matters more than what you say. Communication is 90% nonverbal. I'm sure that you heard of this before. If you're shuffling your feet, looking down at your shoes, stuttering and high-pitching the end of your statements (as if they were questions), not even Style's openers can overcome that. Some great material on inner game and confidence-building on this site - give those a chance =)

Best of luck and happy sarging!

I tried negs to the first day when I went out sarging. The second day I threw them out of my game. Because it alway's seemed I had to recover after using them.
I would only use negs when she really deserves one. Just to put a girl who is playing hard to get on her place.

They should be used like this anyway, with girls with hgh self-esteem who are used to be treated like princesses by guys. Shyer, quieter, less arrogant girls don't need negs, it will simply make them feel unecessarily insecure.

A neg isnt just saying a phrase and then waiting for a reaction... after saying it you must show an active lack of interest in her... like she just failed to meet your standards... do this via body language.. i.e turning your body away from her...
You dont just say
You: "Hey nice nails, are they real?" (Your body is facing her)
Her: "No they're fake"
You: "Ok kool" (Your body is STILL facing her)
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That is wrong! after throwing your neg at her you want to actively show disinterest in her after she gives you an answer like this:
You: "Hey nice nails, are they real?" (Turn your body toward her)
Her: "No they're fake"
You: "Oh.....Well they still look good though" (Turn your body away from her)

i agree with NOT using negs... however if you were to use them then that would be the way to use them...

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