When I'm dating a girl, I always find out if being with another girl is in the realm of possibility, and then I make them happen. More girls are open to it than you think. I don't ask because that's beta. I assume and make the statement. "You seem like you have a freaky side....I feel like you're into girls sometimes huh?" You have to ask them at the height of the sexual tension. When girl's are turned on, they are open to more than they would be during normal conversation.

When I find two girls who are open to this, I invite them both over. I don't initially tell them that I'm bringing another girl over until the night of....Then I break the news...

"So you're coming over around 8? Alright, I believe my friend Steph is going to be here as well..."

Believe me, there are moments that are awkward. Like when both of them are there and they are both sober. I make a few stiff drinks, openly flirt and touch each of them, and then leave them alone for a bit. Make a drink, find a good CD, whatever. Let them talk and then come back. I do this a few times and soon everyone becomes a little more comfortable.

Eventually I just stand up and walk into my room. They will follow and you start kissing the one who is more shy about things. Then move to the other.

One important thing is that I would do this with girls who were comfortable with me sexually. I have probably had a dozen threesomes by just simply making it happen. My main advice is to try it, because I think most men just wait for it to fall in their lap...and they never get to experience it....

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What do you say about me trying something like this with a girlfriend? Any advice on this issue would help.
I have alrdy opened the possibility because she is saying that she would do it with me. The only thing is that she keeps on saying that she needs more time and trust with me. Yes she is having insecurity issues. I make it clear to her that that other girl will only be a tool to have an awesome experience.
I know that one solution is to just go for it. Unfortunately, I think that b4 I go for it, I need to game more so that I am comfortable seducing a girl again.
I been out of the game for a while because I have this good girl right now. But I want a threesome before the end of the summer....

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lol, damn..! when i go clubbing ill try it

The old girlfriend threesome conundrum....

Well, threesome's will no doubt make things a bit more complicated. Girls can get jealous and insecure quite easily. With girlfriends, they need to know that you value her more, and that you find her more attractive. I would try to play on the fact that you think it would be hot to see HER (your gf) with another girl rather than it being a fantasy about you wanting to fuck two girls at the same time.

To be completely honest, I haven't heard too many success stories as far as relationships go post random threesome. So be prepared to deal with a lot of stupid questions...and know it could be a strain on the relationship. If you don't think this girl is your partner for life, then definitely go for it. If you are trying to marry this chick some day, think it through on weather it is worth it. And it all depends on the girl, but if she is already a bit insecure it could amplify those issues.

Being a bachelor for life, I say go for it...but don't listen to me haha....

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thx for the heads up. I love the idea you told me about how sexy i would find it if she was with another girl, and of course I could join thereafter. OHH believe me I am a bachelor. These girls are only for the experience. Marriage is way down the line.
I have been going with the "I wanna share a female with you" and this will be a memorable experience for both of us. Yet I think that I have spoken too much about it when I am not rdy to make it happen. I am going to start gaming with my friends again and I will be rdy after a little bit of practice in-field.
Thanks again for the advice.

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I have girlfriends that I have threesomes with and it is awesome. They have the same attitude as you, but we are just dating and not exclusive.

So you will agree that more girls are into it more than most guys would think......you just have to throw it out there....

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Ive pulled off the girlfriend threesome, it was with her friend who she felt wasnt as attractive as her (dont get me wrong, both of them were dimes ) and so she knew I wouldnt fall for the other girl or anything stupid like that.

What happened was she would tell me that her and her friend make out all the time and I would say something like " nahh, that doesnt seem like you" it become almost a joke between us but it drove her insane.
Eventually a bunch of us were drinking and they began to make out and it led to the threesome. It wasnt much of a suprise because we had talked about it before and my girl expressed a lot of interest in having one.

ThreeWheelin.. what a champ, and a Toronto girl? I love it.