Been gaming a girl for awhile. We get along really well and I have had nothing but repeated IOIs from her. Rapport and comfort was definitely there.

Last time we contacted each other, she sent me a long and wordy text with a few in jokes.

I told her that I would be busy for a few days but I would call her after (this wasn't me playing hard to get, I was legitimately busy).

That was mid last week.

4 days later (2 days ago), when I called her, it cut out mid-ring to voicemail (when someone hits the ignore button). I know she wasn't at work.

I sent a text yesterday but no response either.

Since then I haven't heard from her.

Is this some kind of shit test? She's been responsive and honest about being busy in the past. It's almost out of character.

Does she expect me to call back? Or is this a clear indicator that its done?

Some past experiences from PUAs would be really helpful. Should I try to re-initiate?

The last time we contacted, she tried to call me and I missed the call. I told her I'd call back as soon as I finished my exams/work and when I did (4 days later), nothing. I don't understand why I'm being ignored, since I played a tight game the whole time.

It's been 48+ hours of no contact now.

Should I try again?

This isn't some girl I just recently number closed. We've been in contact for almost 2 months and everything seemed fine until the sudden drop out.

I know she's alive and presumably alright, since she's updated her facebook over the weekend.

Girls are really fucking random, sometimes you feel like they're really interested in you and always wana hang out with you... and then the next moment they just go MIA and you don't hear from them for a while.

But honestly, if nothing bad happened between you guys when you last talked, then it's probably nothing. Maybe she is busy too or maybe she's trying to seem busy and playing hard to get.... then it's good for you!

I wouldn't say its over by any means. Maybe she's a little upset that she tried to call you and you didn't call back for 4 days.

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