hey man i have the same problem as you. i am an experienced drummer, SCUBA diver, rock/ice climber, backpacker, snowboarder among other things. its all ammunition, but u have to learn to use it correctly. for instance, i have scars on my hands from doing shit that involved my activities. when ur in the convo, try to lean towards the shit you do. DO NOT mention anything UNTIL she asks you. or in my instance, if i meet a rockclimbing chick or whatever i will pull out my scar story on one ofmy hands, "see this scar?" that is from ____, usually a truthful story, manipulated a little at the most. but you are a musican right? anything that the girl brings into the convo about music, use as ammunition. i really dont know if this helped, but i am still trying to figure it out myself. i am in the process of it. just a few rules are DO NOT mention anything directly, but you CAN insinuate things. if ur listenig to music, ask if she hears the lead guitar riff, then get into music, neg her about how she definitely isnt a musican because she has no ear for it, then ask her, work on her response depending on if she says she did play something or did not. get my point? hope this helps.. sorry i could not be more effective in my answer -Rye
Yeah I actually sarge one where she brought up having to tune a guitar and worked out quite well since I told her I can tune it. So I went over and fixed it, and got deeper into C3. Sorry Jack I know you hate guitar guys, it just happened, I went with the flow.
Slickrick - yeah I can go as low as a guitar guy, but not emo lol dont worry.
Hungry Like the Wolf - But if you make it all about her, you are already giving her IOIs which would blow your cover and she wont get attracted to you but rather look at you as someone she can talk to about her damn nail polish.