Hey guys, was in the kitchen and I just figured this one out:

When is an ex your ex, and when as an ex "an ex" ?

What I mean to say. You can say about a girl "oh she's my ex". But you can also say "Oh that's an ex of mine".

I think to question this and then discuss it with a girl is a nice DHV discussion. Throughout the story you can DHV yourself pretty much without making it TOO obvious.

Also you can disagree with her and have a discussion:

If she says the ex you've been with longest you can say:
Well your first ex was "your ex" because that was the only one at the time. So the ones after her are "an ex".

If she says that then you can say:
Yes but if you were with your first ex a week and the second 2 years, you're not gonna call the first one YOUR ex and the second "an ex" right?


Any thoughts? I think it's sweet.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

I quite like this dude, anything involving relationships really gets women going.

I have to admit I struggle with the DHV stage being a rAFC, I tend to wonder off and say AFC things. I just need to keep sargeing!!

Reckon I'm gonna give this a try at the weekend.

Tried it today at work and we had a big discussion about it. She came with a new option: The last ex.

So:

The first ex.
The last ex.
The most serious relationship-ex.
The longest relationship ex.

Never disagree, just have a different opinion and share to get a discussion without bashing her in (and looking arrogant IMHO).

Comments welcome, will try it tonight again at some party.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

Tried it twice at a party, 10/10 I'd say. The girls would both ask a bit about the relationships, easy DHV for me. We had a fun discussion and they'd reveal a LOT more than they'd normally do.

Go for it guys!

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

Nice I'm definitely going to add it to my list of routines. You have any other ones along those lines?

Nice!!, I'll field test this and let you know how it goes...