well with regard to the NEGing part
of your story, a shy and reluctant
girl is more easily influenced by a guy
who's easy to talk to... what you
have to do is be "the nice guy"
this will get her to feel a whole lot
more comfortable around you...
got any more querys dont be afraid
Well said, well said. Girls that are shy, are shy for a reason. They more or less don't have a lot of confidence in there views and opinions. Therefor, would rather keep them to them selfs. In the past, i found what worked wonders better then NEGS for shy girls is just silly compliments, that they think nothing of down the road, but when you say it, you can see their smile get a little bigger and they get a little more comfortable. As well, telling them something that you are insecure about or reluctant to let others know about.. for any body but a shy girl, i would never do it. But when you bring your selfs to there level, they don't feel pressure, they feel they are level with you, and you can then try and bring them up with you, making them feel better about them selfs as you compliment them is going to make them feel better, as well make you look better with out going over their heads!