i was wondering if anyone had a text come for this situation

Girl is asking you to come on a nightout with her and her friends but you honestly can't go because you have an exam the next day or simply can't afford it..

what could you say back to her while still keeping your High value and not looking boring to her,

Any good responses ?

I would love to but I have to take a rain check on that. I've got blah blah. Can we do ____ or ____?

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"Intelligence is nothing. Action is everything." -Tony Robbins

Probably a little late for this specific scenario, but in the future, tell her

"hmm, I'm actually going for a night out with the boys that night... Rain check?!"

Or something along the lines.. Don't tell her its because of school, Unless she is the school-type, and would respect that you have an exam and are mature enough to not go out the night before.


Never fire back with "can we do ___ or ___? ". You generally want to make statements when talking to girls or making plans, not ask questions. She may answer "no, sorry, I cant to___ or ___ then... ", and steal your frame back from you


-ub

good one i heard was [and you got to have the right connection with her already.. which you may if shes asking you to come out..]

"ive got a lot of work to do tonight, but what are you doing after?"

--sets up a possible late night hook, cuddle, etc.. gold..

even if she says no, its still the right message..