Hi all,

short intro: having NYE party at (female) friends house, met her friends few years ago, when i wasn't in PUA at all ( and definitely could use some) and had some time togheter, i saw it going well (16 years and in a girls bedroom, lying on her bed together 'woaw'..), i was all over her, continuously texting etc.. we had some very close moments, but i guess she didn't dare to hurt(/reject) me, but she ended up with another guy a month later, for lik 2 years.

so now, we started texting again because we will meet at NYE, and we had some fun yet, like when i said 'you keep on studying untill i text you', when she told me she was distracted.. and she agreed, (but i didn't text her till the next day, bcause i don't care that much right?).. did some planning together for NYE meal, like 'us 2 for the group', think thats some good memory for her..

well the point is, she was suggesting to get some presents for each other, by each pulling a name from another partymember, so each of us has to buy somebody else a present.. she likes the 'tradition' on that..

i want to use that.. with only 2 guys & 6 girls on the night, and 1 guy being me and the other one being together with the friend whose having the party, i'm the only guy left. How could i use this 'tradition' as a gambit to have a NY kiss at midnight? don't think anyone is counting on it, the group isn't that close but still wanna do it.. something like
'you'll have to hurry to be kissed at mightnight, because only 1 guy left for 5 girls, and i don't think they will hesitate when they notice that' (although i very certain know even with 6guys&6girls, this particular group wouldn't arrange a NYE kiss.. - thats my biggest challange)
might do it, but i see a decent chance she will think i'm still directly hitting on her, also because of the history, and ofc because conversation did never get this close the past weeks.. it will be percepted as an akward joke i guess..

i guess she will be a little hold back, because she will still remember me as 'that guy 4 years ago', and thats why i'm stuck with my gerenal gameplan.. don't know how to get around this one.. (any help on reframing?)

so some more game needed before i can pull this of, and have her on that comfort level.. calibrate the interactions etc.. but just when i do get there, i wanna have the 'best' gambit ready to introduce this thought, and thats why i'm here.. keeping in mind this group wouldn't normally do this..

thanks!

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