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Okay i wasnt sure if routines is where this should go so hopefully someone will move it if not. I had a search to see if anything like this was already here but couldnt see anything. I havent field tested this routine out yet but looking for some suggestions to go with it while i make my own from field results.
I sort of stole this idea from watching a TV show but here's how it goes (I think this would be better done during day game)....
You get a girl to say shes spontanious just in your normal fluff talk. Once she says she is just take her hand and announce your going on an instant date. The idea is to do 3 different dates in the space of 10 mins.
I live right on the beach so there is lots of stuff around here. My 3 ideas where, a walk along the beach, go shopping and finish off with a meal. The thing is though its all got to be quick to take away any awkwardness in the situation. For the meal, i was thinking just go to like McD's sit down talk for a couple of minutes (ie dont actually order anything) then move on and return her to her friends.
I was trying to think of more things to do for when im not here that dont involve paying for anything... so any suggestions are welcome.
DM
I like this. It will make her comfortable going out with you (if playing the cards right) and the next time you ask her out for REAL, the chances of her flaking will reduce in a tremendous amount.
Field test it and tell us how it goes.
Good luck!