Hey wassup

Im 21 yrs old, I live in Chicago, both of my parents are from Mexico. Anyways I'm new to this and I just satrted readin some articles in this froum so i can learn on how to seduce girls

Yesterday me and my buddy go to the buffolo wings restaurant and it was my first time going their. We get a table, and this preatty white waitress comes to our table, she's like about an HB7. At first she seemed like a real laid back type a person when she approched us and you know how their sum waitress that act really nice to you and stuff. so when we where about to order, my buddy starts mentioning to the waitress about this challnge they have, and she starts talking about it. That theirs 12 hot wings using their hottest sauce and that you have 6 min to finish it and u get a picture taken and have it on the wall. So I say to her, ''alright then, I'll try the challenge'' and she tell me, '' You sure, their really hot!''and im like ya im sure. So she leaves our a table for acouple of minutes, comes back with the hot wings, and she makes me signd this contract. Then she tells me that when whenever im ready she'll start timing me. so i start eating it, finsihd it in 4 min like it was nothing, not even broken a sweat. Then she says ''congratulation'' and as she was about to take my picture I said to her, ''Hold on let me clean my self up a little, cuz i wanna look good for my picture'' then she says, ''ok i'll wait till you get beutifull'' and I laughd. Then when she was done, me and my buddy order more hot wings because the ones that I ate where free. When she came back with our hot wings, I say to her, ''hey! is it cool if I get a free soda too'' and she says, ''your pushing it'' with a real laid back voice, and I was like, ''what? really... Im pushing it'' we both looked at eachother for a min, and she says, ''I'm just playing I'll get you one''. So at the end we get the receipt from her, as she leave the table me and my buddy leave a 5$ tip or maybe less idk i dont remeber. anyway when we where about to leave I go up to her and right away she says to me, ''so hows your toung? i mean... hows your stomach?'' and im like, '' I'm alright'' then i asked her, ''so.. what if i come back here tomorow and try that challenge again'' and she tells me that i could, it doesnt matter how many times i do it. Then she starts talking to me about it more, but i wasnt really listening to that other stuff, so at the end I said, ''alright then well... i'll probably come back here again next week or something'' and she laughs and says, ''ok alright then bye! have a nice day''

Its seems like a long story, I could've made it shorter. but the problem that i got is that whenever I try to get with a girl that I like, I just always talk to them like any other regular people. I dont know what to do or say when it comes to seducing girls. So if u guys can help me I would really appreciate if I could get some tips, ideas, anything to try and figure out on how to seduce girls, especially this waitress.

thankz

Open her up during the course of the meal. Demonstrate some value, peppered with a little cocky/funny.

Keep telling her that she should be working just when she is most interested.

Make sure they love you when you leave so that she almost wished she had thought of something to keep the conversation going.

Then, make sure you leave something at the table. Return a minute later, pick it up and exchange numbers or make plans.

Straight from Style.

i would ask her to butter up my buns.. nah but i would leave my e-mail address for her on top of the tip, wouldn't exactly leave my phone number on there, dont know where that paper is gonna end up ** edit write her a note on a piece of paper saying "i would really like to take you out to lunch, if you're interested my phone # is or my email is _______, and if not please pass this note on to your cook" then put that note in an envelope and give it to her as you're paying the next time you're eating there. As you're giving her the envelope make sure to say that she shouldn't open it until 12:00 AM or it will explode, then make sure to make a speedy exit out of that restaurant. hope you get her

My only experince with this kind of game is from last summer when I was gaming a BlackJack dealer.. Everything felt great.
I left her note with some details.. but I never heard from her.
Shit happens. Good luck on this one.

_________________
Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

you need to demonstrate value i mean entertain her say, you work hard honey she says yes ,ask when was last time she had a holiday, what is her favorite vacation, then start to elicit values like whats important about her life now, all these questions make you look unique another thing think speak and act like a winner, have an abundant mentality

Using this is pretty funny but would hardly increase your chances, and this is coming from a waiter. I know the waitresses honestly nearly NEVER call guys or escalate with guys they meet at work.

IMO you've got about a two percent chance of getting your waitress to call/text you, even less to email you. IDK why they urge pushing your email.. i dont email anyone for personal business.

In order to pick up someone like this, you've got to either

1. Just happen to get them at a good day (weekday) and as they're just about to get off, so they might sit and chat with you personally.
2. Come in and become a regular, not necessarily ask for them any everything, but just get them familiar with you and talk to them about every time you come in, just something short, treat them as a person, not as a prize. Don't put a lot of effort into it.

With either of these, you would end up closing with "you know i'd love to see you some place other than here, lets go out sometime. Give me your number and i'll text you when I get a chance" (or something to that effect).

_________________
Slept On Rappers
http://hiphoprising.blogspot.com

AFC Adam had a great video about that exact same topic right here:

Great advice in this video:
http://pumaskills.com/blog/pick-up-a-bartender/

_________________
Have You Seen The Hiroshima Opener Technique?
http://pumaskills.com/at/go.php?c=pickupartistforumhiro
Or magic tricks for pick up artists?
http://pumaskills.com/at/go.php?c=pickupartistforum