ok heres the bummer.

Out of all the techniques. I like C&F the most.

I've just started uni and although there isn't many women in my class i did spot 1, so from day 1 i laid on the C&F stuff which she responded to and i actually managed to get in with all the women in my class. The only guy who has.

It just used to be me and the girls who used to follow me around likea lost puppys.
I noticed other guys infiltrating the group which didn't bother me cause non of them looked like they posed a threat.
Then i noticed the girl i like, who i used to hang with all the time, blanking me for this insecure/wimpy guy who litterally jump at everything slightly startling, like if the lights flickered, he would actually jump. She would laugh at this.

Then the other day i noticed them holding hands and kissing and i'm left looking, scratching my head at how the hell that happened. She used to stick to me like glue, like my ex did before i was with her. Now we hardly talk and she's with this needy, insecure guy. What happened?

To much push, not enough pull?

If she was seeking attention from you and all you where doing is trying to stay cool," alpha" and not involved. At some point she will try to fill her need of atention with someone what can provide it. Did you previously made her know that you were interested in her?

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move in!!!!!!!! a kiss and holding hands is meaningless!!

if you read my post on "im a newb where do i start here!" thread you could easyly have moved in

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Don't rely to much on techniques taught by the PUA community.
don't think because you say some C&F lines she will be at your feet.
You don't know the other guy that well, maybe he is what she needed, or he wooed her using some other "techniques" ...

C&F isn't really a technique with me anymore. I find i'm now just naturally C&F in most situations.
Think maybe i just played it too cool though, trying to make her come to me which has work a treat in the past btw but I didn't really give her any indication i was interested.

I could not find this thread. Can you post a link?

This'll take five seconds of extensive detective work...

Hmmm...

*click*

im-a-newb-where-do-i-start-here-vt55071.html?highlight=

Elementary, my dear Watson.