This is flexible. I'm going to field test it today or tomorrow.

A girl is walking by you, or you walk by a group of girls. You stop her or stop walking to say to them:

"Hey, have you ever walked by a really gorgeous guy, wanted to say something, but didn't know what to say?"

If the answer is Yes, which it more likely will be (followed by giggles if their in a group).

You say: "Well, quick, I'm giving you a chance to say something!"

If they laugh or don't know what to say, continue the routine (guiding them) and say, "You can start with your names" or you can think of something better.

If they say No

Then you say: "Well then, this is your first opportunity! Don't let it pass you by. You can say hi to me if you are courageous enough."



What do you guys think?

i think it's a good opening routine, but since it's direct, your body language and perceived value is going to be crucial. i think it'll work great if you have some boosted value before opening.

i would use this after a girl is already hugging me or your friends give you a state boost for everyone to see.

Thanks.

Instead of making new threads.. here's another.

You see two girls sitting down at a table eating or talking or whatever. They could be on the ground, doesn't matter.

As you're walking by, do the half turn around thing. Then proceed to ask the following question:

You: Hey guys, can I ask you a quick question. What do you think is the best way to politely interrupt two girls having a coffee/eating lunch/etc?

If they aren't stupid, they will get the joke and you can carry on from there, sitting your self down with a time constraint (I have to get to class in a few minutes but.. blah blah).

What do you think?

i think the 2nd one is the better, cuz it isn't that direct. you present yourself as a funny gus, but don't seem to be to arrogant (i know many guys would say the first isn't arrogant, it's c&f, but if you don't know the girls from before, they could take it wrong. so: 2nd one;P (i think i'm gonna use it. thank you^^)

Thanks! Go ahead and tell me how it works.

I'm actually also using this variation of it, because I am starting to teach an AA class at school.


You: Hey guys, I have a quick question for you. I'm teaching a class at school about social dynamics, confidence and approach anxiety. I'm teaching guys not to be afraid of girls. But I need some opinions. What do you think is the best way to approach a girl you don't know, without scaring her off?"

And variations of that... It's so easy, especially when it's true! And it incorporates extremely high status!