How should a PUA handle the dance floor. Do the rules just go out the window? Or are there good ways to set up a K-close while you are dancing?

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Hey how we all doing?

Rules are meant to be broken! What you call rules are parameters that different puas have come up with to help you progress faster. If you are comfortable and confident than you can throw those parameters out the window.

Dancing tis easy to set up the k close as you get the kino and buying temperature up and so you pull her in and kiss her. If you think about it than you should be doing it.

ChowforNow,

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'Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm disappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistently, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying.'

'How did it start?Well, I don't know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking.'

'Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me'

'Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck'

'Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, re energize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

hahaha im not going to lie...but i think i am pretty good at this....

the other night my buddies and i went to the club to have a good time....

we r all dancers for one thing so we were itching all night to hit the dance floor. We got near the dance floor just chillin out waiting for a hype song to play and looking for potential hotties to dance with(take advantage of )....then i noticed these 2 girls looking over at me/us i believe....at first i thought it was nothing, but then they kept staring and shit and talking amongst themselves...i told my friends "lets go dance...." then we went on to the dance floor and as we walked by those 2 girls, i kind of gave them a weird look that kind of said "bad girl...i caught u checkin me out....." anyways of course i knew they were up to no good (alot of ioi's) so i kind of set it up that my buddies and i would dance near these girls, eventually i dont know how this happened but i started to dance with that girl and my friend started to dance with that girl's friend. Her friend yelled in my ear "my friend thinks your cute!" (pretty straight forward...)...back to dancing with that chick, i leaned over and said "so you think im cute huh", then she said something i couldnt even hear (music was fuckin loud as hell).......after dancing for a short while , we got closer and pretty much my face was like 4 inches away from hers, looking downwards. i went in closer and see how she would respond. i dont think she moved away, cant remember if she moved in also or not. GOOD SIGN though....so then i just went in slowly and then we made out in the middle of the dance floor.

Easy k-close.

muahahahah friends=shocked plus owned.


i cant remember what happened after that..i think i started to dance with other people then they just left or vanished for the rest of the night.

kind of feel guilty.

the most important part i believe when gaming at a club, is to go to the club with the intention of having fun with ur buddies. dont go with the mentality of im going to try to get laid , because ur intentions can be seen.

have a couple drinks if u want.. but have fun! the girls pick up that your having fun.

and what i mean by having fun is not jumping on top of tables yelling "WOOOOOOOOO" and doing stupid retarded fag shit like that. but to enjoy the music and feel good about yourself, loosen up, release all the stress your have, and not give a shit about what people think about you at the moment.

I once heard that opening on the dancefloor was a deathtrap. But I think it can be done!

Try just dancing up to your target, but if you think you might get blown off, build some social proof by dancing with some others first, or if you're a really good dancer don't worry about it. Oh touch her elbow at first, I read a big article on how that makes people so much more compliant.
You can even neg her on her dancing if ya want, in a C&F way of course.
Then if that flows well give her a little advice on dancing, as a compliancy test. If she follows, then reward her with a small compliment. Then offer to go sit down and talk. Depending on how it feels grab her hand or just link arm in arm, during the walk this would be a great time to introduce your self.
Now once your sitting down you have many options, you can either build up some more attraction or move onto comfort, to be safe I would build more attraction frist with The Cube or Palmistry, some kind of cold read, if it's a real killer cold read then turn your head and tap your cheek indicating to kiss you on the cheek. Then I'd launch into a role-playing routine or this might even be a fun place to play the marry/murder/shag game.
I could suggest all the way to full close but I'm sure you already know what your doing right. (you can message me if you want me to.)

P.S. if you need the material for any of the routines I metioned I will gladly give you the resources. [/b]

what I have done in the past and continue to do today, is rather simple.. I usually go to a club with a few friends and always try to atleast have one girl come in with me..

I go on the dance floor...usually walk right into where the potential target is... I look at her, give her an up and down look (kind of like, I am the man and who are )... then i just take her arm, spin her... neg her on her spinning technique... tell her to spin me... and roll from there

It's really simple mate

Good hunting.

Keeping eye contact seems especially important while on the dance floor. Through eye contact and smiling I've had a girl dance away from her friends over to me!...though to be fair, she was a little outgoing...and definately a little drunk...
anyway, in my eyes it's still important!! =P

Great post...actually yeah I'd love if you told me where you got em!

Im not even going to bother reading anybodys response to this thread because i just want to add my opinion because it is an opinion thread but for me




RULES GO OUT THE MOFUCKN WINDOW!!

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DO NOT GO UP TO A GIRL AND START DANCING. that is what every other AFC does.
Couple different strategies. 1 of them:
Dance around girls, in between them, w/e. just don't freak them right away. and if you can prove to them you are fun, then they will start to surround you. you are now choosing instead of the girl. role reversal, and dhv.( only works if you are actually a good dancer)

i think ill disagree with u there buddy, dancing with girls is fine, its having fun and your showing you have energy and confidence!!

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From my dancing experience experience at clubs/bars, I've noticed that if I go to the floor either with a girl I know or by myself and just do my thing, other girls will take notice. If they see you're having fun (with another girl, with your friends or by yourself) and they are looking to have fun, they'll more than likely try to have them notice them back.

I have a very limited closet full of "real" dance moves. I can sort of C-walk, enough for someone who can't to be impressed. Other than that, I usually just make up shit on the spot or throw in a canned dance move (i.e the lawnmower). It shows you're fun and you don't give a shit what the other people there think.

If you're looking to have fun on the dance floor, just go have fun. Girls looking for the same will notice and want to have fun with you. From there, it's pretty easy to use kino. If a girl wants to dance with you, she won't be creeped out that you're touching and what not. That's just my experience...give it a shot if you want.

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Haha I think the only way to open a girl on the dance floor involves dancing. But trying to say a line over the music will usually end in complete failure.

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I was at a drum'n'bass gig and this HB 8 had about 4 guys all dancing round her, i saw her checking me out but i was wearing sunglasses which work really well btw. anyway shes got these amogs dancing and putting their arms round her but she was still checking me so I danced near her but I had my shoulder facing her until i saw a gap in the guys, grabbed her hand and just pulled her through straight away from the amogs and started dancing.
Maybe this was a one off but I think simply grabbing her hand and leading her between these guys showed I was alpha but not needy.
oh by the way im only like 5' 6 and these guys towered over me, so it shows what a little confidence can do.

the most AFC thing you could do at a club is walk up behind some girl and start rubbing your crotch all over her ass...

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