Am getting back into speed dating , and would love to get advice please on anything that has worked for you.
Thanks in advance
I don't know, never been speed dating. As I understand it at the end you simply check the box next to the name of the person your interested in and if they do the same you get their number. Okay, how can we work with this. Well you can pretty much pick like three routines and change them for each person. You need a minimum of three as the people next to you can over hear you. You have to tailor them for time, and stick in lots of qualifying. If you can practice these so that you are natural that would be best. The cube might be a good example of this. You'll have no ability to bring them to a secluded area, but at the same time you won't have anyone blocking you except the timer. It's kind of some sort of dating limbo world where the blocks have been removed but you can't change location.
I suspect most people on this forum don't speed date because going out to a club provides just as target rich an environment and less structure / more opportunity. If your craving the structure to get over your approach anxiety or something else related to dating you might simply work on that as a sticking point. Most people on this site if they date, it's a date after they get the girl's number at a public place.