What I'm sick of is the mindset that higher status equals higher value or higher quality. This is what needs to be understood. Why is a Swedish diplomat better than a secretary? Just why? That Swedish diplomat can be an arrogant bitch, and the secretary might be the sweetest kinky girl of your dreams. I'm not saying this is always the case, but you are assuming it is never the case and you're missing out on great women if you follow this limited mindset. Judge women on who they really are, not what they work or where they come from.
I was being harsh on you because your post reeked of arrogance and I hate that. It didn't seem like you just wanted to avoid looking like a provider, it outright came across as when the girl is not the type that can pay for you then she can go fuck herself. Now if you genuinely want the quality girls and really not use them, that's another case, that's perfectly fine, but please mind that paying for the girl once in a while, and especially paying for your own stuff is pretty much fine.
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A lot of women come to clubs expecting men to buy them free drinks right?
Don't get me wrong I don't have double standards. I dislike these gold digger females just as much. I can't stand when people arrogantly think that other people owe them something just because of their status, gender or whatever else bullshit reason.
When you have a sexual frame with a cocky, playful attitude then you are instantly either a lover or a no-no to the girls. You simply can not fall into the provider cathegory this way. Providers are usually boring people who think they get girls via buying them stuff, they play it safe and have no idea about the real needs of women.