Ok this is the situation

Met a girl and have an open relationship with her for 9 months we both really liked each other however she had to go home country hence why it was open

I went and visited her in her country 4 months ago and will be seeing her next week in mine

we have a don't ask don't tell policy however she (Not me) wants to end that next week by telling each other if we have been sleeping/ or seeing anyone else


I have kissed many girls (5) however have slept with none.There was a Spanish girl who got really close and she knows this however nothing happen as I stopped it. I still think she thinks that something did happen. The Spanish girl was a HB9


I want to keep her chasing and interested. so what should I do to DHV

1.)Should I tell her I slept with the Spanish girl (even though I didn't) and tell about the other girls now

2.) Or should I tell her i did not sleep with the Spanish girl as I really like her and tell her about the other girls I kissed

3.)Or should I tell her i did not sleep with the Spanish girl as I really like her and not tell her about the other girls I kissed


advice needed

I would tell her you guys are friends and very vaguely speak about her if she asks. Keep an air of mystery

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I going to be under pressure as she really wants to talk about this


why would she want to talk about this now??

Any advice from previous posters?