It's interesting...When I like a girl every thing i do i feel has an extreme effect no middle ground...Even little things that i look back on an realize "wow she wouldnt care."

Has anyone found a good middle ground? The 2 step foward 1 step back is interesting, but sometimes i find it's difficult to not do anything...When she starts feeling attracted to me I think i need to back off a little, but i dont have that patience. I guess this is the downside to relationships rather then pick ups.

How do you guys feel about this? Any methods that allow for contact with each other while still making her not lose interest exactly like the Cat and Yarn thing.
-Zapp