| Disclaimer:This concept was originated by the PUA coach Gambler of PUA Training.
However,this as a technique/routine was put together by Socialkenny,with Socialkenny's added insights.If a guy were to come close to you,stand next to you[be it at a bar,club,store,wherever],give you googly/dreamy eyes,start chatting you up...
As a heterosexual,straight male: how would that make you feel?
Pretty fucking uncomfortable and anxious,right?
Now,as a straight male who's uncomfortable with such actions from another male,what would you then do?
You would side step,move away or run for the fucking hills!!
You staying there,entertaining such advances by another male, communicates that you're gay,or at least inclined to be hit on by men.
A gay man would see you as prime- fucking target LOL.
I don't know about y'all,but for Socialkenny,whenever I'm @ the club or bar,and some random dude inches his way next to me(too close for comfort),looks at me at all in a cheesy way...
I'm moving!!
I'm taking few steps to the side just to avoid sending this dude the wrong signal,that he can just invade my personal space and I'll be cool with it by staying there.
Any heterosexual man would move away also.
How does this relate to picking up women?
Use The "Gay-Test Technique" On Women(to know if she's open to chatting with you)
Next time you're at a bar,club,waiting in line at the grocery store,etc....
And you spot a hot girl you want to chat up(but not sure if she's up for it): Do This:
•Invade her space!!
[Not face to face,but shoulder to shoulder laterally].
•Get close,but not actually touching to cause discomfort and be deemed a Social-Violator.
Now remember what a straight guy would do in this case(if another guy would stand so close): he would move away.
Likewise,if he or she does NOT move away,we can assume that they're willing and open to be chatted up.
•So stand side to side(close) to this girl.
[You don't have to say a word to her,but to say "hi" won't be a bad idea].
•If she doesn't move away after some seconds:she's essentially open for conversing,or she's even attracted to you(without you even knowing).
Picture a UG(ugly girl),or some gross,fat-unsightly chic standing beside you.
99% of men would take that instinctive step to the side,not wanting to be mistakenly associated with this unsightly mammoth.
You deem her unattractive!
Same concept with women: if she doesn't draw away nor take that step to the side from you,(Assume) she's fucking attracted to you and wanting to chat!!
So guys,field test this technique wherever you go.
Just stand close than usual to women and see how they react!
I do this all the time @ banks and the bakeries to gauge whether the girl is approachable or not.
Some reactions you may get(from her):
Negative Reactions
•Side step
•Funny look
•Head snap backwards or to the side(as if internally saying,WTF)
•Walk off
•Nervous tension
•Shit Tests("Why are you so close to me")
Positive Reactions:
•Smiles
•Peripheral look via eyes
•Subconsciously inches her way closer
•No reaction at all is a great reaction. _________________ Most active PUA blog in the community since 2009.
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