so here's the deal...

i met this girl at a club a few weeks back n hit things off really well after my initial hesitation. (she was alone n shot me a look when i first came in, but i never jump on the first thing looking my way. had to scope out the spot first)... long story short.. approached her about 2 hours later, danced, got number, met n hooked twice the following week.

so now she bailed (work schedule change n sick) on 2 plans since then (2 weeks ago), but is still in contact every couple days. I'm dying to get her back on the hook, and trying to make thursday that day... a local bar has a guys night thing, golf instruction, straight blade shaves, cigars, etc which i kind of either want her to hang for (plenty of women go), or myself bail on those plans midway through to meet her elsewhere. looking for a smooth way of doing so via text, making it difficult for her to decline.

little additional info... she mentioned she got out of a relationship, but i discovered it was actually an engagement. i don't know if it's actually done, or she's on the fence with it, because her facebook still says shes engaged... (it could be she just doesnt want a public fuss over the breakup, as me and my ex didnt either. we were broken up months before the facebook status changed.)

any advice on a quick deal sealer for thursday, or should i just put it out there n leave it open? need some text game advice here