Ok, there are millions of routines, I'm just gonna tell you what I did and how it went.

So I'm in a pretty small underground club in Bath (good place by the way!)
I can't remember how it was going but I was trying to get her to teach me to dance and just having a laugh and out of nowhere she said 'I've got a boyfriend' so I did the obvious 'That's perfect he can make us scrambled eggs in the morning' with a big smile and laughed and i'm not sure she took it too well, I think there is a lot of suggestion in saying that (ie. you're a slut) even if it is a little cocky/funny. She re-inforced her comment but I knew she was in to me and she had a massive smile and we were still dancing. So I said well I know you're hot but don't assume everyone is hitting on you, I just think you're good fun. Then it died down a bit.
She still didn't seem 100% confident on the fact that she had a BF, I just kept pushing the 'you're a fun girl' and it's cool, 'I know you like me but don't assume everyone is hitting on you'.
Towards the end of the night still no K-close but I was getting very close to her as if I was going for a kiss and building massive tension - I'm not sure whether if a K-close here would have sealed it or ruined it.
anyway I said let me take your number and we can meet up in town again and have a laugh, she said I can't as I have a boyfriend. So I said listen I live local, so do you, we both had fun, forget about your boyfriend we're just having fun. How about you take MY number and send me a message if you like.
She took my number and about 30mins after getting out the club I had a boring old 'hey' message from her but I was pleased with that. Just before I left she also said something like, it's a pity, nobody has made me feel this way before - i've no idea what I did.

Here is a little question for you guys too...

People advise not to drink when you're sarging.
I've got to be honest and say I have a rather respectable job and it's hard for me to really relax and let myself go. I find alcohol does this and definitely makes me more fun on a night out so I always drink, unfortunately it often ends in drinking too much and being too drunk to sarge.

Do any of you have this problem? How do you deal with it?

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Tony T

Hey man, about your alcohol question, check this out... the human body can metabolise 20 grams of pure alcohol per hour... This means either: one glas with 50ml of hard licquor, one 125ml glass of wine or one 500ml beer... If you manage to keep it within these limits, you will benefit from the effects of alcohol, reduced inhibitions and a funnier mood plus not get too drunk to sarge (big turn-off with te chicks) and as a bonus, no headache next morning... Hope this helps... Bye!

Ha, mate, I love it!

I was expecting either (a) Stop bitching and get hammered or (the more traditional PUA response) (b) Drinking effects your game, don't do it!

I'll try and stick to those guidelines mate, I suppose it depends on size/muscle/sleep and a few other factors but i'd imagine it's a good rough guide!

Thanks again!

T

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Being a new PUA why not try the straw man approach on her viewtopic.php?t=43374&start=75

You have to ask yourself if drinking boosts your confidence and game
so much that it is worth doing. the side effect of alcohol i experience is that i forget routines and neg too much without realizing it.

Just keep yourself to a limit of 2 drinks an hour, or find something
else in which you can relax yourself (listening music before you go
out can bring you in a total relaxed state of mind)

hey mate, i live in Australia where the drinking culture is massive, it doenst end after collage it just increases so before discovering any of this PUA stuff my routine was get drunk and have a crack at every bird, since i have pulled back the drinking (still a few for liqued confidence) my game has sky rocketed.

at first its a bit nerve racking but then you realise that you have more of your witts about you and you will get more results.

as long as you dont take anything personally you wont care about striking out sober.

as to the rest of this sarge sounds like you did a great job getting her to text you first. nice.

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