Hey guys,

Here is a routine I want to try out today. It should raise the stakes of every interaction throughout the day.

In this specific situation I have had an unofficial date with the target four times and I have been unable to K-close her. She has been giving massive amounts of IOI and is intrigued by me, but she refuses to show any romantic interest.

So here's the plan.

Today we are visiting some friends of mine together to have a good time. During the day I will be giving IOI's, IOD's, compliance-tests, the whole works. Now, this is how I tend to raise the stakes:

Before we enter my friends' house, I will grab her aside and say something like:
"I have something important to tell you. I really think you are attractive and a lot of fun (IOI). But it's never going to work out between us (IOD/neg, keep her guessing for the reason). I don't want things to get all complicated, so maybe after today I might decide that we will never see eachother again... as for today, let's just have the best time!"

Since she already digs me, throughout the day she will feel the need to disprove that 'it's not going to work out'. Every IOD or IOI that I give her will be amplified emotionally, because it could mean never seeing me again if she screws up.

What do you guys think?

I don't really like the word "Never" maybe swap that out for "might"

Sure go with your ultimatum but I think 4 dates even if unofficial a K close should have been made.

Just thought of this based on your plans/situation.

Alternitive solution, right before you get to your friends place ask her if she can keep a secret, when she says yes. Kiss her and then knock on the door. Act like nothing happened while your hanging out unless you notice she is being more receptive to you giving you kino etc.

This could help build some sexual tension throughout the day.

Afterward she might ask you what all that was about and be a little confused kiss her again and say you thought it would be fun.