What do you do if she calls you a player?

You AGREE, then redirect. The delivery should be mater-of-fact and casual as though you were simply answering someone that asked you if today was a nice day. When she accuses you of being a player (which is attractive to most women anyway) what she is really saying is she thinks you think of her as just another potential notch on your bedpost. She needs someone strong enough to handle her test and give her a reason for why she isn't just another girl.

Her: "You're a player, aren't you?" (or something similar)

You: "I've don't my fair share of dating, sure..." or "Yeah, you could say that..." or "Women have said that about me in the past..."

Then redirect:

"You have to. You have to find out what's out there so that when you find something worthwhile... someone worthwhile, you'll recognize her...you, for example...

Then: say something about her that attracted you to her specifically. Generally something other then looks (unless it is something quirky she might think of as a flaw). Naturally she'll misread what you have just said and imagine you said she was your soul mate or some such and here is why.

Well guys, that's about it. Enjoy!

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Hi, I'm A. Fahren and I'm an author. I love to travel, socialize, and am hopelessly addicted to movies. That's about it.

I think your overall format isn't bad, but I'm not sure about the full package. You can say, "Yes, I've dated my fair share of women."

You can probably even follow up with a challenge to her, "How do I know you aren't a player yourself?"

Your overall redirect is a good idea, probably even better would be to completely deflect from the topic and reopen her all together.

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"You can't be happy with anyone, unless you are happy with yourself"

You can also say, "It takes one to know one!"

"Yes I'm a (insert sport) player"

"With great penis comes great responsibility"

"I am a player. Is it working on you?"

If you're looking for relationship and deep connection with the girls just go for what the original poster did

"You are right women do like me and i get to sleep with a lot of them but because of that I never get to meet that special one like you. bla bla bla"

My favorite response to this shit-test;



"Aren't you? Everyone is, some more and some less."

This comes up quiet a bit, what works for me is telling the girl what a player is and compare it to every guy she's shot down in the past, your pulling Shit out of the air but its not hard, especially after studying this enough and going to enough parties everyone's seen the self proclaimed pimp that gets shot down left and right, then flip it on her that you say no more than you say yes, putting her on the spot that she has to work for your attention and this will boost your dhv because your preselected to where you have options unlike how girls see most men. This always works like a charm for me and can bridge to connection.

I say the same thing...

"Why is it that when a man knows how to dress, can talk articulately, and is witty as hell he has to be a player? I ... well, frankly, I find it offensive" and I smile.


DHV yourself. If you're going to be accused of it - get the mileage out of it.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I would have done what dude said and answered with a challenge... sounds like a shit test she is putting you through. Hell I'll call her rude for asking. And say something like you seem very judgemental when you react like that. Put her through a loop ya know. Then ask her about how long her relationships usually last. An afc asks what's your longest relationship. That is an io I. Instead ask her a question you know that she is bound to fail. Shell be much more flattered in the long run when things take a particular turn

my answer to that would be

"Playing is for children"

there is usually no good comeback to it.

they smile, i laugh and neg them for not thinking of a comeback quick enough.

blah blah blah.

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