Hey Guys

For some this seems pretty obvious but I've read a couple threads about using negs and how they aren't useful for some of you gents out there. It sounds like the majority of the problem is coming from the way in which the negs are being used, and they often come across as mean.

Stop using verbal negs.

When you remove the lint from her shoulder DO NOT SAY ANYTHING.
When you offer her gum DO NOT SAY ANYTHING.
(if she says no to the gum, just shrug and put it away)

These non-verbal negs are FAR more effective than anything you could ever say to her, and you should never need more than these two.

I'm constantly picking little things (hair, lint, fuzz) off of my GF (call me a virgo but I always notice little imperfections) and I do it right in the midst of conversation as if it was just a natural thing I had to do.

By simply doing it and not saying anything about it, you've allowed her to fill in your thoughts about the lint or whatever. She's likely to feel embarassed, there is no need to say anything.

Also any time I offer my GF gum she asks "what does my breath stink" or "you trying to say something" and I say "no just offering you gum" because she has already applied a meaning to the action of being offered gum (her breath must stink). I like the gum because it is a nice gesture to offer it when you're taking a piece for yourself as well.

Also pick a unique flavor, everyone has mint gum.

Hope this helps when you're going for that 10.

I like the gum idea. Because I've been offered gum before lol. Now I'm going to be looking up "lustful gum flavors" hahaha.

I think I'm going to try the neg, hard to get, indifference techniques again. I tried to move away from that because I found it to be a crutch. Forcing myself to use direct game only for one year really helped my game. I think it's time I go back to the old style. I miss having women coming out of my ying yang.